Accept(uate) the Positive – Evaluate the Negative
(Don’t Ignore the Stuff that is In-Between) by Kathleen M.
Dickinson, CGA
Among the
common comments made to me after I analyze someone’s handwriting
are: “Now tell me the bad things” or “Now tell me the truth”. I
think that happens for the following reasons:
Many people are not given a lot of
constructive personality information when they are growing up,
therefore;
People expect to be told bad things
about themselves, so;
The reality is, I have told them the
“bad” things and the “truth”. The fact is, because the handwriting
analysis has hit home, they do not necessarily hear the ‘bad’ things
as bad.
For instance,
if you have sarcasm in your writing and you feel good about being
sarcastic then when I tell you that “you can be sarcastic”, you are
not going to hear that as ‘bad’. In actuality there are various
aspects of ‘sarcasm’. If it appears at every opportunity in a
writing it indicates repressed anger, and it can lead to a lot of
miscommunication. If it occurs once in a while, then it can be seen
as wit or a dry sense of humor.
Synthesis is a
very important component of a handwriting analysis. I evaluate all
the different things I see and then there are enhancing qualities
such as depth of writing, slant, size of the writing, margins etc.
Lets break down the brief sample shown here.
Notice the
size of the writing. When a person writes ‘large’ it indicates that
they see the big picture all the time. A person with
extraordinarily large writing does best when in charge of a project
with a lot of spokes (like an umbrella). That way they can see all
the different aspects of the ‘umbrella’ and accomplish everything in
that scope. Notice the ‘d’s in ‘did’. The first ‘d’ indicates
someone who does not want to beat around the bush, who wants people
to be direct with them. The loop in the second ‘d’ represents
“sensitivity to criticism” which means the person does not always
hear compliments, they expect to be criticized. If you know a
person with large ‘d’ or ‘t’ loops it is valuable to get them to
hear the compliment so they do not always expect to be criticized.
The sharp
ending of the ‘t’ crossing in ‘not’ shows you what sarcasm looks
like in writing. It has a knife look to it. You can get an idea of
the evaluation process when you understand that the person was
probably criticized a lot growing up and the sarcasm became their
survival tool. The breaks between the letters in the word ‘catch’
shows intuition and music appreciation. The large space between the
words ‘catch’ and ‘the’ shows personal isolation. Notice how in
‘to’ the t crossing goes back to the left? This indicates
self-castigation. The length of the t crossings represents levels
of enthusiasm and energy. The clean and open circle letters (o, a,
d) shows levels of honesty and talkativeness. The upper loops show
the person is breathing (size and width of loop), has developed a
philosophy of life and has imagination.
From what I
have said so far, we know that this person can be a good teacher or
presenter (open circle letters, philosophy/imagination in upper
loops), they are sensitive to their surroundings (depth of writing),
they beat themselves up on things so we need to have compassion for
them (back strokes), they are intuitive (breaks within words) and
they probably benefit from spending time alone (strokes below the
baseline do not return to the baseline), listening to music. They
are energetic and profit from dancing, or doing physical activities
that they enjoy (energy in the writing).
Something I
always tell my students, is, that one characteristic does not mean
anything by itself. It is important to synthesize everything that
is in the writing i.e., the depth, slant, margins, other qualities
etc. So please do not tell people that you “know” they are “this”
or “that” because of anything you read in a handwriting analysis
article. It is important to study handwriting analysis in depth to
really know all the qualities that go into evaluation.
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Certified Graphoanalyst Kathleen Dickinson uses her training in
handwriting analysis to bring to light hidden facets of personality
with a goal of optimizing both the personal and professional In her
capacity as owner and proprietor of Dynamic Impressions, Kathleen
offers her breadth of experience to both individuals and
organizations with the goal of facilitating personal and
professional success. For more information please visit
http://www.dynamicimpressions.com .
Copyright 1988 | Dynamic
Impressions- Kathleen Dickinson, CGA |
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